Abortion

The catholic church teaches us not to do abortion except in cases where a life is to be saved which is either the mother's or the child. But advice goes to save the mother 1st most of the time. I feel that solution is more sound because u wud not want a child to grow up without a mother... .
Then there is this group people who have free sex and get pregnant and then op to abort. Here 2 sins are committed one is have premarital sex and next is aborting the child. Well here there is compromise for not aborting whereby people rationalize by saying that the girl should take responsibility of what she has put herself into. Same goes for the guy who should share the responsibility. So not aborting the child thus continue to give birth to him/her is acceptable both for the mother n her family and i guess the society too to a lesser extant.
Now the hot debate comes when the child to be aborted is the result of rape. 1st of all
the gal who got raped is definitely undergoing trauma both mentally and physically what more when she got to know that she is pregnant!!! BOOM!!! goes the mind. Depression, anger, frustration can surface and even the girl could be at risk to dvp psychiatric problem. Now what should the girl do if she is pregnant? She does not know who the father is and probably is she would be the result of a gang rape.
The church tells us not to abort. How now.
For me (girls are surely not going to like me for what i am going to say) i think the girl should continue her pregnancy and give birth! WTF!! goes the girls.
Of cos they would say and debate about how wud the girl bring up the child? How wud she be able to achieve her dreams? How the child wud grow up without knowing who the father is? Well all their arguments are totally for me are legitimate and logical and acceptable. All the feelings they go through cannot be denied and ignored but must be addressed. The church says dont abort.
There is the calender by the Bro of St Gab which was banned where one of the pictures depict Joseph and Mary adoring a fetus on the manger (yeah Jesus supposed ot be there). And an explanation was given.
When Mary got conceived she did not know, no one knew, the child had no human father and she was an adolescent! Why did she do? Well since she got to know it was God's work she accepted it but would the community except it? The community backed then is not like today's where ever1 are individualistic. Even Joseph wanted to divorce her. Mary did not go abort the child. Joseph excepted her.
Know to issue we can take into argument giving reason why she did not abort.
1) its God's child
2) Joseph covered her
but the girl who got rapped? Unknown father and No Joseph.
this is my answer and view.
1) the rape child is God's child too
2) Everyone is called to be a Joseph for the mother.
Number one explains itself. Number 2 answer is where we all should stop the stigma against the rape child and also the mother instead support both of them to grow up and until both achieve their dreams! Its a struggle but the outcome will be great. Always remember that Jesus got killed for our sins and he rose from the dead. What more could be greater? We instead should celebrate as from the evil done evil lost by birth a creation of a new human being is brought into this world. If the child got aborted evil wins again. The child would grow up to be a symbol of life won over evil done. A good over evil win and that child wud be more blessed.
Furthermore the mother i believe and feel would carry more pain aborting the child then giving birth to him/her. And the pain of abortion haunts until death if not reconciled. Which now is better?
Life begin at the moment of conception. Some may argue about the point on viability. Well the definition of viability is human made and depends on the technology of the country. Malaysia 23/22 weeks, WHO 24 weeks, US 20 weeks. So what is now the viability age?? If a viability maintained outside the womb in a testube from 1 week of age? viability? So viability has no place to define when life starts. Life starts at the moment of conception.
Take up the challenges in life God will be by ur side.
Even giving the child for adoption is a good option if reality is hitting hard. Giving up for adoption 2 goods done. Better life for the child and also giving Joy to the adopter.
So girls what u say now? Got the boobs?? (since i cant u use balls) hahahaha