Well when we go into a relationship eventually we tend to start thinking of having sex with our partner. !st it begins with holding hands, caresing, then smelling each other, kissing, fondling, oral and finally hit the balls and fill the hole :D. People defend premarital sex by saying its a proof of love or a way to show love among partner. Guess the forgot virginity can only be lost once for both just that the for the gals its can be seen obviously. So then now people argue how to prevent this. Prevent love and relationship. Well thats the old way where BF GF are taboos and a big NO from parents. But actually i find going into a relationship is good as its an opportunity to discover oneself and a sort of preparatory state towards marriage. This is wud discuss further some other time. for this moment back to sex. Yummy. How far and what type of sex we can do in a realtionship. Should it be just halted at oral or we go dwn deep in? Fondling with cloths on or off?
Its a hard question for we all have our hedonistic desires and even for me i honestly do not know what i wud end up doing with my partner so how?
Play save is the next question. Have fun playing save. Over here its not about STDs and births and abortions we r talking about, its about feelings. FEEEEEEEELINGGSSSS ling ling ling. ( Not a gal called Ling ya - nobody is calLing her too :P)
When people have sex a bond is made both mentally and physically and even physiology helps with all the adrenaline and sex hormones going in for a binge drinking party. Thsi bond when is misused causes a lot fo hurt especially towards the human and this is due to their natural nature of a nurture nature species. Whether the sex if of consent or not it will effect feelings. This feeling can be suppressed but doing it continuously will end up you having a personality disorder or ends up becoming wasted. Why not ask the feelings of prostitutes about their job. They are NOT happy!
Do you also know that majority of relationships that have sex b4 marriage do not last. Majority break up by 3 months and many do not last over a yr. Very few end up in marriage and over here in Asia esp among the rural and lowly educated, or among some educated fools do marriage due to 'accident'. Save face. Later divorcelah or have extramarital affairs and many other crap shit happens.
So how now. How far do we send our hands loitering around your partner. Well 1st no to penetrative sex. I wud have to put up instead a challenge or a point to ponder on.
Premarital sex is usually driven by our hedonistic side or our id over ruling our ego and superego not the genuine LOVE.
So the question is: If you truly Love your partner you would respect him/her not only of her feelings but of her physical as well. You do not own your partner. Since being sacrifice is a great way to show love (not jumping over the railway track - thats stupidity then suicide) so sacrifice that feeling of having sex with her. postpone it till marriage where u can screw each other up side down till glory cum :D LOLOLXXX. So simply put if you love your partner dont have sex with her. There are other ways of showing love.
The types of sex - well haha u sendiri fikirlah and tanggung juga akibatnya.
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