Fornification Under Comand of King

Well when we go into a relationship eventually we tend to start thinking of having sex with our partner. !st it begins with holding hands, caresing, then smelling each other, kissing, fondling, oral and finally hit the balls and fill the hole :D. People defend premarital sex by saying its a proof of love or a way to show love among partner. Guess the forgot virginity can only be lost once for both just that the for the gals its can be seen obviously. So then now people argue how to prevent this. Prevent love and relationship. Well thats the old way where BF GF are taboos and a big NO from parents. But actually i find going into a relationship is good as its an opportunity to discover oneself and a sort of preparatory state towards marriage. This is wud discuss further some other time. for this moment back to sex. Yummy. How far and what type of sex we can do in a realtionship. Should it be just halted at oral or we go dwn deep in? Fondling with cloths on or off?
Its a hard question for we all have our hedonistic desires and even for me i honestly do not know what i wud end up doing with my partner so how?
Play save is the next question. Have fun playing save. Over here its not about STDs and births and abortions we r talking about, its about feelings. FEEEEEEEELINGGSSSS ling ling ling. ( Not a gal called Ling ya - nobody is calLing her too :P)
When people have sex a bond is made both mentally and physically and even physiology helps with all the adrenaline and sex hormones going in for a binge drinking party. Thsi bond when is misused causes a lot fo hurt especially towards the human and this is due to their natural nature of a nurture nature species. Whether the sex if of consent or not it will effect feelings. This feeling can be suppressed but doing it continuously will end up you having a personality disorder or ends up becoming wasted. Why not ask the feelings of prostitutes about their job. They are NOT happy!
Do you also know that majority of relationships that have sex b4 marriage do not last. Majority break up by 3 months and many do not last over a yr. Very few end up in marriage and over here in Asia esp among the rural and lowly educated, or among some educated fools do marriage due to 'accident'. Save face. Later divorcelah or have extramarital affairs and many other crap shit happens.
So how now. How far do we send our hands loitering around your partner. Well 1st no to penetrative sex. I wud have to put up instead a challenge or a point to ponder on.
Premarital sex is usually driven by our hedonistic side or our id over ruling our ego and superego not the genuine LOVE.
So the question is: If you truly Love your partner you would respect him/her not only of her feelings but of her physical as well. You do not own your partner. Since being sacrifice is a great way to show love (not jumping over the railway track - thats stupidity then suicide) so sacrifice that feeling of having sex with her. postpone it till marriage where u can screw each other up side down till glory cum :D LOLOLXXX. So simply put if you love your partner dont have sex with her. There are other ways of showing love.
The types of sex - well haha u sendiri fikirlah and tanggung juga akibatnya.

Abortion

The catholic church teaches us not to do abortion except in cases where a life is to be saved which is either the mother's or the child. But advice goes to save the mother 1st most of the time. I feel that solution is more sound because u wud not want a child to grow up without a mother... .
Then there is this group people who have free sex and get pregnant and then op to abort. Here 2 sins are committed one is have premarital sex and next is aborting the child. Well here there is compromise for not aborting whereby people rationalize by saying that the girl should take responsibility of what she has put herself into. Same goes for the guy who should share the responsibility. So not aborting the child thus continue to give birth to him/her is acceptable both for the mother n her family and i guess the society too to a lesser extant.
Now the hot debate comes when the child to be aborted is the result of rape. 1st of all
the gal who got raped is definitely undergoing trauma both mentally and physically what more when she got to know that she is pregnant!!! BOOM!!! goes the mind. Depression, anger, frustration can surface and even the girl could be at risk to dvp psychiatric problem. Now what should the girl do if she is pregnant? She does not know who the father is and probably is she would be the result of a gang rape.
The church tells us not to abort. How now.
For me (girls are surely not going to like me for what i am going to say) i think the girl should continue her pregnancy and give birth! WTF!! goes the girls.
Of cos they would say and debate about how wud the girl bring up the child? How wud she be able to achieve her dreams? How the child wud grow up without knowing who the father is? Well all their arguments are totally for me are legitimate and logical and acceptable. All the feelings they go through cannot be denied and ignored but must be addressed. The church says dont abort.
There is the calender by the Bro of St Gab which was banned where one of the pictures depict Joseph and Mary adoring a fetus on the manger (yeah Jesus supposed ot be there). And an explanation was given.
When Mary got conceived she did not know, no one knew, the child had no human father and she was an adolescent! Why did she do? Well since she got to know it was God's work she accepted it but would the community except it? The community backed then is not like today's where ever1 are individualistic. Even Joseph wanted to divorce her. Mary did not go abort the child. Joseph excepted her.
Know to issue we can take into argument giving reason why she did not abort.
1) its God's child
2) Joseph covered her
but the girl who got rapped? Unknown father and No Joseph.
this is my answer and view.
1) the rape child is God's child too
2) Everyone is called to be a Joseph for the mother.
Number one explains itself. Number 2 answer is where we all should stop the stigma against the rape child and also the mother instead support both of them to grow up and until both achieve their dreams! Its a struggle but the outcome will be great. Always remember that Jesus got killed for our sins and he rose from the dead. What more could be greater? We instead should celebrate as from the evil done evil lost by birth a creation of a new human being is brought into this world. If the child got aborted evil wins again. The child would grow up to be a symbol of life won over evil done. A good over evil win and that child wud be more blessed.
Furthermore the mother i believe and feel would carry more pain aborting the child then giving birth to him/her. And the pain of abortion haunts until death if not reconciled. Which now is better?
Life begin at the moment of conception. Some may argue about the point on viability. Well the definition of viability is human made and depends on the technology of the country. Malaysia 23/22 weeks, WHO 24 weeks, US 20 weeks. So what is now the viability age?? If a viability maintained outside the womb in a testube from 1 week of age? viability? So viability has no place to define when life starts. Life starts at the moment of conception.
Take up the challenges in life God will be by ur side.
Even giving the child for adoption is a good option if reality is hitting hard. Giving up for adoption 2 goods done. Better life for the child and also giving Joy to the adopter.
So girls what u say now? Got the boobs?? (since i cant u use balls) hahahaha